Dont be upset when he did not fulfill his promise, as long as he’s with you, both of you can realise it together.

Dont hurt him when he fails you or insist your way, because in his heart he wanted as much to give you what you wish for. As much as it disappoints you, it has already hurt his pride that he cant give you what you wish for. Have patience, because he will surprise you one day.

Dont compare him with someone else, while you are engrossed in thinking how well someone else is having their wishes fulfilled. Think about the wonderful things he has done for this relationship which others have not.

Dont expect too much in material fulfillment, because when you lose him, even the most beautiful dress, bag or item which you have been eyeing, have lost its appeal. You will realise you need him more than anything Money can deliver.

Dont ignore him when you have company, because when you lose him, no amount of consolation and company from people can ever compare having to see his face, even from afar.

Dont make him wait because you have only this lifetime to know this man whom you love. You will never know when will be your last.

When you quarrel, be the first to apologise no matter whose fault is it. Love is not a competition on who wins, who’s right or wrong. Apologise first because you respect him. When you lose him, you will realise you miss even quarrelling with him.

Dont say words that hurt him even though he upsets you, because he is after all the man you love and care for. To experience hurt from someone you love is more pain than a knife cutting through your flesh.

Dont forget to tell him you love him everyday. When you lose him, these simple 3 words becomes something you yearn so much to tell him.

Dont forget to praise him for all the wonderful things he has done, it takes a lot of effort and time for him to find a way to make you smile.

Dont be upset if he cant send you home or call you, because as long as you have him, there will always be tomorrows you can meet each other again.

Dont be upset if he can only send you by public transport, when you lose the one you love most, the only companion you have on the journey home are strangers.

Dont be angry if he provide comments that you dont find pleasant because only those who truly love you will be honest.

Dont be upset with his parents, because you will realise without them, you will never have met him.

Dont be jealous if he’s nice to his friends or family, because you will soon realise you are with the most wonderful person.

Dont be upset why you have to stay home with him and not have the opportunity to go out, because when you lose him, you will realise those malls or places you wanted to go are no longer a happy place, all you want is to have him beside you no matter where you are, even just doing nothing.

Dont leave him because you think you can find happiness in someone else. When you lose your love, you realise no one other than him can withstand all the hardships with you. No amount of riches, luxury, diamonds, fancy holidays, nice cars, clothes, makeup can ever conceal that emptiness in your heart if you have lost him.

Smile more to him. Tell him you love him today if you havent. Praise him, care for him, hug him tight and tell him you will never want to let go. Respect, trust and support him. Hold his hands, kiss them & tell him these are the hands you want to hold for a life time. Look into his eyes and tell him -